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Halloween Do’s and Don’ts for Pets

DO ensure that pets always have identification.
DON'T keep pets outdoors during Halloween and the weeks running up to it as people start letting off fireworks earlier than Halloween night.
DO talk to your vet if your pet gets very scared from fireworks as there is a variety of treatments and medications that can help.
DON'T dress animals up in costumes as many pets find this uncomfortable and stressful.
DON'T take pets trick-or-treating.
DON'T let animals near bonfires, candles or other dangerous items.
DO make sure that rabbits and other caged animals are safely secured in a garage or outbuilding.
DO keep pets away from Halloween decorations and tell children not to share any sweets and chocolate with their pets.
DO take a pet suspected of ingesting a harmful item or substance immediately to a vet.
DON'T ignore animals in need. Report animal abuse and neglect immediately.

See also Rainbow Bridge Memorials

"Its Just a Dog" prequel to Jennifer's Tedx Talk

Although Roxy was ‘just a dog’, and she died over 8 years ago, recalling her last day still feels heartbreaking for owner Jennifer Muldowney. In fact, she says it was one of the worst days of her life and has inspired her upcoming Tedx Talk in Tallaght this Thursday October 12th

“She was 16 – quite old for any puppy – and she’d had a series of strokes,” says Jennifer, 35.

“I had just returned from the holiday of a lifetime in Cuba and when I arrived home Roxy came running out as usual to say hello. But everything wasn’t usual - I knew something was wrong. Four hours and another stroke later we were taking her to her death. We had her for 16 years, she was part of the family. She was my best friend through childhood, teenage years and adulthood. I felt like I was betraying her.”

Jennifer’s deep emotions regarding the day her dog was euthanized strikes a familiar chord with just about anyone who has ever lost a beloved pet to euthanasia — more commonly known as “putting a dog to sleep.”

The aftermath was even worse than the act itself, Jennifer says “I often ask myself did we do the right thing, could she have gotten better or was she saying thank you. Her eyes never left mine as she died. And then afterwards, people just don’t know what to do with you, theres no funeral or blueprint to follow. You feel awkward calling into work asking for some time off. You feel your friends look at you thinking “Just get over it, its only a dog” especially if they have had human loss. It seems self indulgent to even think of mourning a pet when faced with human loss so feelings get hidden and grief gets buried deep.”

 Ireland is changing when it comes to pet loss as we see recognition of the grief people experience when a beloved pet dies where we never saw it before. There are helplines offering support and a listening ear. You can buy pet condolence cards, memorial jewellery. Pet funeral businesses are springing up: pet cemeteries and pet crematoriums with pet specific caskets, urns and keepsake jewellery.

One study by the Funeral Co-op in the UK found that more than a quarter of respondents had found their pet’s death as difficult as the death of a family member, and a third thought it was on a level with the loss of a friend. Nearly half of the bereaved owners were still mourning after two months, and 16 per cent were struggling a year later.

While it might seem self indulgent or the ‘world gone mad with millenials’ by older generations to mourn the loss of a pet or compare it to the loss of human life, to some it can be just as heartbreaking. All loss and grief is important and essential experiences of the human psych but grief that is dismissed by others can be more painful still. 

Pets are often with us 24/7, reliant on us for food, water, exercise, and survival. They become our confidantes and in some cases have been known to prevent suicidal thoughts and help with mental illnesses. Here is a living being who will not judge, reprimand, or dismiss your thoughts, actions or feelings and yet when they pass the loss can be dismissed as ‘just a dog’. It’s not right.

Irish milliner Philip Treacy lost his jack russell, ‘Mr Pig’ in 2004 and said ‘I saw Mr Pig as my friend, not my dog. He was my everything; he was like my child. He was by my side, day and night, for 12 years. How many humans could you say that about?’ Treacy even went on to compose a book Dog Stories, which is an anthology of stories of well-known people (Lady Annabel Goldsmith, Sir Jackie Stewart, Lord Hattersley, Anna Pasternak, Petronella Wyatt, Edward du Cann and Tom Rubython) and their dogs. They recount the adventures of their pets, and the happiness and ultimate sadness they brought to the lives of their owners.

Jennifer used her grief to build a business helping others to grieve and started a company called Rainbow Bridge Memorials offering condolence cards, pet conscious cards and memorial jewellery but it is more than just a business as she says “It has become a community. We have a Facebook page where people will often post about their pet or their grief and others chime in and offer support. We all know the sadness of pet loss and the difficulty in speaking about it to others who don’t have pets. The emails I receive from my clients about my jewellery often overwhelm me as they tell me how much it helps them in their grieving process and some of the emails were heartbreaking to read. It brought the loss of Roxy up all over again but I guess I started the business because when we lost Roxy, I still wanted her with me every day and wherever I go and with the jewellery I can do that and it helps.”

What your dog wants you to know...

1. My life is likely to last 8 to 14 years. Any separation from you will be painful: remember that before you get me....

2. Give me a hot second to understand what it is you want from me!

3. Please trust me and love me and care for me.

4. Do not be angry at me for long....I can't stand it!!

5. You have your work, your hobbies, your friends and your family. I only have you.

6. Talk to me often, I love to hear your voice.

7. Be conscious that whatever way you treat me, I will never forget.

8. I have sharp teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite you because I love you.

9. Before you scold me for not reacting as I should, ask yourself if I might not be getting the right food, or I'm tired, or my heart is getting old and weak.

10. Take care of me when I get old. Don't say: “I can't bear to watch”. Everything is easier for me if you are there....even when we say our final goodbye.....

International Pet Memorial Day 2017 at the Doggie Do Dublin

Celebrate Your Beloved Pet for International Pet Memorial Day at the Doggie Do in Herbert Park, Dublin.

 

Established by the International Association of Pet Cemeteries and Crematories in the US, International Pet Memorial Day in an annual event held on the second Sunday in September, to honor pets. It’s also a great time to think about and share with others the important role that beloved pets have played and continue to play in our lives. This year the day falls on September 10th which is the same date as the Doggie Do (www.doggiedo.ie) pet event that will be held in Herbert Park, Dublin 4.

 

Loyal to the end, pets bring an abundance of joy and companionship to our lives and they do it without prejudice or judgement. They don’t care what type of mood we are in, what bad things we have done or how we look. These are only a few reasons why it can be so heartbreaking to say good-bye to a four-legged friend. The grieving process can be difficult, but it’s something we must face as pet owners. There is a poem, known internationally by most pet parents who have loved and lost, and it is called "Rainbow Bridge." Through this story it is said that when a beloved pet dies, they cross over Rainbow Bridge where there are meadows and hills for all animals to run and play together. 
 
Rainbow Bridge Memorials (www.rainbowbridge-memorials.com) created by native Dubliner Jennifer Muldowney embodies the Rainbow Bridge story by using an array of vibrant colors in their packaging and in their jewelry designs, which they hope will help grieving families remember that their precious pet is in a safe and happy place now. 
When a family pet is lost it is even more important to help small children to grieve. Losing a pet is often their first experience with death and it should be addressed in a safe and caring way. Here are a few ways to honor and celebrate a pet that has crossed over Rainbow Bridge for this year’s International Pet Memorial Day: 

 

  • Plant a tree or a shrub in your garden as a living memorial for your fur baby.
  • Create a keepsake box or make a scrapbook with notes, diary entries, photographs, old leashes or toys that are special. a scrapbook
  • Frame a few of your favorite pet pictures to display around your home. Audrey Dalton creates beautiful ‘pawtraits' to hang in your home. (www.pawtrait.ie)
  • Put a picture of your fur baby onto a pretty paperweight to place on the mantelpiece or on your dresser. (Paperweight)
  • Make a donation or volunteer at an animal-based charity or rescue such as Dogs Trust (www.dogstrust.ie) or the DSPCA (www.dspca.ie). Giving back to animals in need may help you in the grieving process.
  • Have some of your pets ashes/fur placed into a beautiful piece of jewelry with Rainbow Bridge Memorials. (www.rainbowbridge-memorials.com)
  • Talk to someone. Sit down with family, friends, or neighbors who knew your pet and share your favorite memories or stories together with them.

 However you choose to remember your pet will be a perfect representation of the animal who captured your heart. This year, take a few minutes to sit down and think about the wonderful animals that have enriched your life. For those who are celebrating a pet who is still alive, be sure to give them a big hug and some extra love and attention on this very special occasion